Do you feel sometimes, that your thoughts, are perhaps, your own only?
No they are not.
You will find that when you start to believe and trust yourself, you will be confident that when you share your thoughts out into the open, you’ll find that there are also those, who think like you.
I speak from my within and the within is as simple as it shall be, no deep thinking goes on.
You waste time, deep thinking, it is pointless and a waste of energy. Why? Because the more you think, you loose it all, you definitely do. You are looking for, without you realising it, looking to connect something that happened in the past. It doesn’t have to relate to what it is you are thinking now, but the fact that you have gone to the past, you lose it all, you loose the ‘train of your NOW thoughts’. Read this paragraph again, so you really understand what I mean.
Right, 15 years ago.
I just became single [no man in my life, no relationship with the opposite sex] and wanted to start dating again, why?
Now, that is a long-story-why, and the why is one of the things I talk about as a Freedom Coach a Freedom Maker, with regards to the ‘NEED and WANT for something.
When you need something or want something, that thing that you want is not what it is you want, it is something within you, that is lacking and needs healing, FIRST.
Before you embark on looking for something, or when you find you need to have or want something, I suggest you heal from what it is you feel-short-of-in-you.
You’ll realise, when you do heal, that the things you thought you needed or wanted, for some reason, unknowing to you, disappears. Yes it does, it definitely does.
Back to what I was saying about me 15 years ago. I use to wear wigs and hair extensions and do all sorts to my hair, so, I feel and look attractive to the opposite sex. Yes, it is not just what you like to see in yourself in the mirror that ONLY matters, the attraction to the opposite sex is another, girls, it is isn’t it?
I wasn’t getting anywhere with meeting anyone, really. There was also a reason behind why that was, too. I needed to heal, I didn’t know this at the time.
I got fed up, angry, frustrated and lost, kept asking the why why why?.
I said sod it, I am going to effing cut all my hair off. Which I did using a clipper.
I didn’t care what anyone thought of me with no hair. I even went as far as saying, to the likely men out there, cyberly of course, ”if you don’t like me as I am, then you are not for me”.
My confident went right up, loved the way I did it then. That in itself was liberating, absolutely. I loved what I saw in the mirror.
I started to get good compliments and carried it well and proud of it.
I still needed to heal from a lot of things that has been getting in the way of me moving forward as the carrying my short hair and being proud of it didn’t last.
The story I have just shared with you, may bring up things for you, which, I will suggest you concentrate on the good side of it. Yes all things that happen to us are all good things, and learn to start seeing all your experiences as good things, regardless of what they are.
I will share with you three things why I am sharing this with you.
First, believe and trust whatever you do. How? Learning to know that the things you think, the things you see, the things you feel, the things you do, will all be as it shall be. Regardless of what others think. Be confident in it.
Second, when you are in a need or want for something, realise that you need to find out why that is. It is not to do with what it is you want or need, it is got to do with something that is laying underneath you and it is coming out of you by wanting and needing something desperately.
Third, my ultimate reason here is, heal heal heal, heal away from even the tiniest things. You get to live a happy, content, joyful, positive, illuminating, light and all the good things you like to be and feel when you heal.
Light Love and Strength